Sabado, Enero 19, 2013

Sorry, I'm flawed.

I've been walked on, used and forgotten and I don't regret one moment of it because in those moments, I've learned a lot. I've learned who I can trust and can't. I've learned the meaning of friendship.

I've learned how to tell when people are lying and when they're sincere. I've learned how to be a teenager, and how to grow up when I need to. I've been to hell and back a few times, and I won't ever take what I have for granted.

This is life, live it one day at a time. You never know how many days you've got left.





~~ Jheca. ☺

Young, Wild and Free ♥

We're too young but we hurry things up. We got young hearts but we torture it by loving too much.
We're supposed to have sweet, young love but we always end up having serious heartbreakin' relationships. Don't make things hard.

If it's not meant, then leave. Live a full life. Suit yourself with happiness. 

The best of everything takes place at the right time when we are ready.







~~ Jheca. ☺

Huwebes, Enero 17, 2013

How to Move On After a Breakup?


Breakups can be abrupt and drastic changes in someone’s life. The feelings can be the same as if you had experienced a death of someone close and they can take just as much time to get over. Breaking up can be very painful. Getting over a breakup, moving on after your ex breaks your heart - these are challenges. There are some ways to make it a little less painful…but be warned: it is still painful.

-Allow yourself to accept that the relationship is over. At times, people can be in denial and avoid facing this fact.
-Stop punishing yourself for what happened, and let go of all of your negative feelings. Write a letter detailing your negative feelings and burn it afterward. Allow yourself to grieve the relationship you lost.
-Realize you cannot control such factors in your life, then do some introspective soul-searching to figure out what you have learned through the process of the breakup. Make a list of all the lessons you have learned and find ways to apply them to a new life.
-Let go of regrets and heartbreak and anything that wears you down. Get rid of all the negative influences in your old life and start fresh.
-Learn to smile, and find new ways to occupy your time. Develop new habits to replace the time you spent grieving over this past relationship.
-Keep a journal and list in it happy moments with the person you loved—in time, the separation will become less painful.
-Be patient with the process, as it takes time to heal a broken heart. Do not expect quick and easy solutions.
-Try to keep a distance between you and the person you love by avoiding contact and phone calls.
-Do not wallow in the breakup. This could prolong the time it takes to get over your ex.
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How boys feel when they’re in love...


From: Anonymous

We, boys, don’t get butterflies, we get fireworks. We don’t have you on our mind 24/7, but we do have you on our hearts. Often, yes, we wait for you to go online, sometimes simply even just being online makes our heart skip a beat, even if we don’t talk. Whenever you talk to us, our face forms that half-smile. it means we are happy but we are trying our hardest to not show it, but we fail at hiding it. We do miss you all the time, granted, we’d spend all our time with you if possible. We don’t think of the smallest things you say, we think of every word you say, panicking at every single word, trying to define what it really means, to read between the lines. But wait, there’s more.

We would love you in a million ways. And once we start loving you, there is no going back for us. No matter how hard we try, we will always love a girl that has touched us. Us, boys, when inlove will think of that girl first thing in the morning, and last before we sleep at night. Whenever we see a couple, our thoughts immediately jump to that girl, and imagine that the couple was us. Every single detail about her is loved. the way she walks, talks, speaks., The sound of her voice. her laughter. The sparkle in her eyes. Her shy smile. The way she dresses. That cute face she makes when she’s asleep. And the way she says our name that our hearts just explode, a simple act that no one else can replicate.

A boy in love with a girl is no simple thing, though ladies stereotype us guys as simple. A man in love is not simple. No. He will be unpredictable. He will be persistent, stubborn, and given the circumstances, if it means carrying you from one side of the world to the other to win your heart, a man in love would. He will show you how to appreciate the beauty of the world in a thousand ways, and then he will tell you how much he appreciated your beauty in a million ways. :'''>

How to Keep Your Girlfriend Happy ☺


  • One & Only. Your girlfriend should be your one & only. Make her feel special, k guys ? You’re lucky to have her even if she’s lucky to have you too. We know there are prettier out there but we like feeling as if we’re the only beautiful one in your eyes, & the only one you see.
  • “Ladies first.” No. That rule doesn’t apply to communication. Don’t wait for her call, text, IM, why don’t you try talking to her first for a change ? It’s thoughtful & sweet if a guy can actually do that. 
  • Surprise her. You don’t have to drive an hour to her house at 3 a.m. to set off her name in fireworks in front of her window, but the little things are big things. A simple, good morning text, is more powerful than you think.
  • What insecurities ? For the love of God, all girls have insecurities. Please don’t point them out. For example, today I was looking at food & my boyfriend said “You eat a lot. You probably could beat me at a buffet.” WHAT. THAT’S NOT WHAT YOU SAY. Also, let her be herself. If she’s having a bad hair day, don’t make fun of her if it’s hurtful. Let her wear sweatpants & still feel pretty damn cute around you, even when she’s not looking her best. 
  • Act the same around your friends. You’re not a real man if you completely blow off your girl in front of your homeboys. When you’re going to hang out with her & your friends you better not run off & leave her standing there to greet them like WUDDUPPP GUYSSS.. NO, you better at least walk with her & introduce her to them if you haven’t already. If you walk with her hand in hand, she’ll love it. 
  • When she’s mad. Dude, you better try & get her back. Chase her, whatever it is, don’t let her walk away when she’s mad at you. It shows you don’t care enough to go after her. Don’t let her go. 
  • Maintain. If you did a bunch of cute things with her before, try & keep it up. You don’t have to go all out everyday for her, but don’t stop completely just because you got her already. 
  • Honesty. If you lie to her, you’re going to have one hell of a time regaining that trust because she’ll start questioning everything you’ve said or done for her, no matter how small that lie was. Fess up or get lost. 
  • Trust. If your girl really doesn’t like one of your friends, trust, she has good reason to. Girls’ intuition -shrug- So don’t go hanging with your homegirl all the time if you know your girlfriend doesn’t like that bitch. She usually won’t hate for no reason. Respect her. 
  • Love her. That’s all
  • Time for a Change

    One night, before I go to sleep...I was thinking "Why things didn't fall to their proper places for me?"
    I fell in love, it never works. I love him, he loves her. Things aren't going to do me a favor. LOVE was never my friend...



    At my age, who am I not dream about having a "Prince Charming"... having a real life fairy tale... those thoughts always bother me before I go to sleep... WHY? Am I not enough for anybody?
    until One Morning,
    I woke up realizing one thing... "I DESERVE BETTER" I don't need to chase after them.
    I must start being brave not only to depend myself but also to depend my HEART from being broken or torn apart someday.

    I am now a woman not a Cry baby girl. I'll start focusing on loving myself more than loving others.
    THAT'S ALL. thanks for reading! ☺ :*


    Jheca

    beginner

    I really don't know why I made this one.

    I just think..I want a diary "ONLINE".

    let's just say, every time my dilemma comes, I want something that I could do
    to express my thoughts. I hope this would work.! :)